You and he quickly get married. This solves the immediate problem; the lord loses interest in him. Unfortunately you discover that this marriage is not to your likeing. Your new husband is a clumsy lover who needs mothering. You are now tied down and feel that there is much in life that you missing. You want fun.
You could have an affair – that younger son is still interested in you and doesn’t care that you are married. You could make a hobby of nagging your husband – he needs much improvement. Or you could accept things as they are. What will you do?